10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
- Proverbs 31:10-31
Society has taught women that the description, above, is weak. To be submissive is to be a doormat. The word tells us to strive to be that woman ladies. To do anything less is not lining up with the will of God. No we are not perfect, and yes the Proverbs 31 woman is a super woman basically. You may never be able to do it 100% but don't ever let someone else tell you that your desire to be this woman is wrong. You can work and take care of home, or just take care of home or do things however you do them. Taking care of business is what we are born to do. A strong woman doesn't always do what she WANTS to do, we do what we HAVE to do and take necessary steps to make sure that we are pleasing God and our home front!
Females let’s be clear and REAL...a man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman. He's cheating with you because you are NOT good enough to be THE woman. I laugh at women who brag about being the "go to" woman when the man gets bored at home. You try to put down a submissive woman for being who GOD designed her to be. Learn what submission really means. A submissive woman is FAR from weak. A true submissive woman knows how to carry the load for him and her both without him even having to know it. She knows how to speak to his spirit and not his lusts. She knows how to push him to his dreams instead of pulling him to his destruction. She knows how to pray WITH him and not PLAY with him. She knows how to be quiet even when her flesh wants to speak. She knows the vcalue of his hard work and not JUST of his dollar. A submissive woman is his LIFETIME while the "other" woman is just a GOOD TIME and that's all you'll ever be. He knows that he can throw a few dollars and material possessions your way and that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man. The submissive woman makes it easy for herself by making him EARN her...not BUY her. You are the O.T.H.E.R woman...an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases! Get a clue and change the game ladies!